There is a secret of success too many of us get conditioned to sell for a promise.

Something two determined hearts can win back.

The distraction begins at school. An effect that caring family, people who love to see us thrive and grow, buffer by showing a model of team play at home.

So today let's explore why the sexes are made to help one another.

But first we dive into the depths.

The divide that conquers harmony in most of us before we understand the beauty of the word.

Until nowadays only a lucky few experience the strength of a romantic team.

Because easy times have opened the gates for indoctrination that everyone can do everything. How one sex is guilty of all. While the other is all pure. Something too many of us aren't seeing because a power majority have sold comfort for votes for such a long time.

We have an illusion that independence is glory. Yet simultaneously holding the right to claim the benefits of togetherness, when it suits our urges.

Love is now something to postpone in a freezer.

Team play is all but sunken in leagues of online pressure.

In a spectacular now of divers choosing to meet in shark waters. Cavitating fins yearning for validation in bubbly, yet inky waters of online. Scroll by scroll looking away from all depths of the heart.

Mesmerised by tales of blue ocean.

The rift valley opened at school widens into the subconscious.

Quietly, softly, innocently.

Where boys and girls enter the realm at one age. Though we develop quite differently. It's simple and it's natural. Meant to be this way.

In a setting of origin, which respects the power of Nature to lob the unexpected in a unisex way, this would be superfluous and healthy.

Bravery requires time to shoulder. Ask any veteran about that.

But in school, goodhearted boys are lagging by age ten. Overshadowed by flirty peers.

The ones able to court girls who begin to feel ahead in emotional development. Enabling a contribution to a tribe, even early on. Today boosted by affirmative actions a young heart never asks for. Which healthy families buffer by supporting either sex to thrive. One day to attract with confidence knowing the magnetism we bring to a relationship with our natural self.

But our system is finding a way to crack this too.

Glorifying single motherhood by choice.

Expecting one sex to evolve like the other. Using all kinds of shaming tricks, especially in the movies, advertising, and media, ridiculing the sex who develops at a different pace. Ironically they overlook the morass their conditioning is painting for their own family bond, if any.

Shame sticks like tar.

Tar holds the feathers from lightness.

In a world birthing a girl for every boy can we downgrade one without denying the other?

So beware!

A trillion dollar raven is hovering to pinch the jewels.

We all need to spot the scavenger that blends in as random.

Let's begin by boosting one another. Allowing no excuses to blur the danger we face.

Even if we aren't going to be steady. Let's purify the ocean where a girl gives a clear signal. Or finds the courage chivalry asks to shoulder. Responding with great bravery by saying “Hello. I saw you from over there. How is your day going?“. Happily on calling or replying as promised a conversation will flow. Asking for a next one before you go.

Because tycoons with government eagles are trading division as achievement.

Blaming loneliness on the victim.

Preying on singletons who leave the gates open to ideology. Allowing the feeds of us vs them to parade any flailing fish onto a deck of corporate cubicles in beige.

Treading time until the “good ones” exist in a bubble of fantasy.

The marketplace is rich.

Partly because the sex who falls behind is required to have a purpose. Hardly revered for communication. Almost certainly judged for vulnerability.

While the other sex is flattered all wonderful at communication.

Invited to front vulnerability as woke protection.

The perfect fit for a knowledge economy. Encouraged to mock the lack of vulnerable communication on the other side of the wall. How the voracious bird pecks in poison so quietly. Getting us to limit our success by preempting any standing by in purpose. Our greatest possibility of winning as a team in an expensive world.

Luring one side by promise of comfort.

Priced at shedding the reverence for natural self, also in the other.

The ancestors of a lucky few understood the value of difference.

Magnetizing a sense of team play.

Their differences of talents, focus, and energy built the protection we enjoy today.

They knew we're designed to uplift one another. In a reciprocity that is the first hallmark of love. Combining aeons of talents to create a safe place at home. Knowing that it wasn't the easy times that defined necessity. But rather the times when things are challenging. Something we may have a tough time considering as a possibility today.

Great couples help one another to accomplish what is meaningful.

They know life is a gift of unknown time.

Even so, they build.

They aren't looking to see who is boss. They know that life is in charge and bumpy times will return to haunt those who expect a breeze.

Facing challenge brings us gratitude. And we all deserve a chance to make things good.

Love gentle.

Always love sincere.

Let's emulate the winners.

Together upholding team play values, making it look easy to wait for what isn't easy. Bucking the narrative, you choose to protect one another.

Both rocking accountability. Living by a natural theme. Superstarring in symbiosis by striving to understand the other.

Twenty years in curled up on the sofa enjoying a movie with one another.

Romancing a friendship to success.